![]() ![]() I worry, however, that in the future I'll be sexually frustrated and unsatisfied because we are only able to have sex in ways that he prefers. I do my best to focus on enjoying what he will give, instead of what he won't. Right now, despite all of this, I'm not unsatisfied with our sex life. His lack of interest in meeting me in the middle, or lending credence to my desires, or even discussing his own, is making me feel like a pervert, and makes me feel slightly resentful. I've offered to indulge any fantasy he has, and he insists he doesn't have any. If pressed, he dismisses these desires as silly, or just sighs and acts put upon and stressed out until I eventually drop the request. He says that it would make him uncomfortable and refuses to even try it. He always answers that my request is corny and cheesy. I have asked for everything I listed above, both while we're in bed and while we're out of it. He, on the other hand, likes to make love on the bed or possibly the couch if he feels like really going crazy, and only if there is ample time (quickies make him feel rushed), and he won't even say, "This feels good," or "I like it when you do X," let alone, "Do you like it when I fuck you hard" or something. I want him to talk dirty to me, knock it out with me in a bathroom at a party, hold me down, smack my ass, bend me over the kitchen table, jerk off while I watch, etc. ![]() The one area, however, in which we disagree is sex. We get along, we have a great time together, we share the same views on most important issues and have the same conception of what our future should look like. We are both attractive, intelligent, funny and in love. On the surface, everything looks - and is - quite perfect. I'm 30 and in a wonderful, loving, amazing, 10-month-long relationship with an incredible man whom I adore. ![]()
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